The Cabin...

Out of the last 7 years we have gone up to the Debry cabin in Montana six times. It is one of our family traditions that we all look forward to. We always have a blast! This year was especially fun. We usually do a good balance of fun activities and relaxing. This year we (at least some of us) went fishing (good thing Rob was there to fish the kids out of the river!), hiking at Crazy Creek, playing in the mud, going off the rope swing, horseshoes, church, giving a concert for "the aunts", playing games, and of course, our day trip into Yellowstone. The boys even watched the kids so the girls could have lunch at the Beartooth Cafe -- oh the rum poppy seed cake!

Like every other year, we continued the tradition of playing Guesstures. And like, just about every other year, the girls skunked the boys! After being completely dominant in the first game, Mark decided we should do "double or nothing" for the lightning round. In this lightning round, our spouse would select the cards we would act out and set them up for us so that we would not see what was on the card until the timer started. Super fun! Again the girls rocked and we more the doubled the boys points. (I am pretty sure that is not what Mark meant by "double or nothing" --ha ha!)

We gave the chance for the boys to redeem themselves when we took them on in horseshoes. Ken brought up his horseshoes and the boys decided that would be this year's project: to make horseshoe pits. Despite the swarms of mosquitoes, we had a blast playing. In both games, the girls had the lead most of the time, with the boys coming from behind and squeaking out the win right at the end. Good thing, I think if we had skunked the boys at horseshoes too, they would never play another game with us. :) I see a new game tradition in the making and I even received my horseshoe nickname of "Carli Sliders" because of my impressive horseshoe throwing form. At least that is what they said...

The kids had a wonderful time playing with their friends! They got really dirty. What kid can resist a giant mud puddle? They loved playing out in the tree house and up in the loft. I am not quite sure when they slept because they were up late every night and up early every morning so they would not miss a moment of playing opportunity.

I too had a wonderful time playing with my friends. The Allreds and DeBrys became family to us during our years together in Colorado. It is so great to reconnect with them every year up at the cabin. Their friendship is so precious to us. We also love it when new families join us. This year the Wagners came up and it was great getting to know them better. (It also helps that Brenda is an awesome Guesstures player!) I love the time we get to spend together. Especially if that time is after we put the kids to bed and we are relaxing and talking on the best and most comfortable couch ever!

Now the countdown begins for next summer and when we can go up to the cabin again...

If you want to check out more pictures from our trip, click here for the gallery.

Yellowstone

We just got back from our yearly trip to Montana. We had a fantastic time, as usual. This year the Wagner family from our ward joined us and the DeBry and Allred families. The Debry cabin in Cooke City is only a few miles out of Yellowstone, but we haven't gone there for several years. This year the Wagners wanted to visit the park, so we all decided to make a day of it.

We had an incredible time. We drove all over the park visiting Mammoth Hot Springs, Old Faithful, Tower Falls, and ate a picnic at Sheepeaters Cliffs. The views were spectacular and we were able to see a ton of animals. We saw antelope, buffalo, elk, deer, a bald eagle, and a mama bear with her cubs. It was especially cool to see the buffalo stampede down the hill, swim across the river, get out, and continue their stampede across the next meadow. Absolutely amazing! On the way back through Lamar Valley the light was so golden and made everything seem even more beautiful. Of course I couldn't help but take a gazillion photos. I uploaded a few into this slide show, but you can see more if you click here.

Bearing fruit...

Our raspberry bushes in the backyard are finally starting to actually have raspberries on them! Who would have thunk?!? Last year we got, count it, ONE raspberry. I am starting to get excited for this year and -- if we can keep the birds away-- the raspberry freezer jam I could make!

Campin' with the Hansens 2008

This fourth of July weekend we went up to Rocky Mountain National Park for the 7th annual "Campin' with the Hansens." Every year we look forward to camping with some of our friends. We had a wonderful time (except for our air mattress going flat the first night -ugh!) and the weather was perfect. The kids loved getting dirty, especially Peyton and her black hands!

The next morning we enjoyed a nice walk up to Alluvial Fan and a wonderful picnic lunch in the park. After a little rest at the campsite we headed into Estes Park and found a spot near the high school for to watch the fireworks. We made sure to get a spot by the park (we were there a few hours before the show) and the kids played, played, played and played some more. Some of the adults enjoyed playing some Frisbee on the lawn while we waited. Estes Park put on a great fireworks display and we all enjoyed it. The last morning we always have a big breakfast with all the trimmings before we pack up to go home.

Every year we look forward to this annual tradition and we always have a blast with our friends. I especially love the part when we get the kids down for the night and all the adults get to talk around the fire. We are so grateful to Jen and Karl that organize the yearly camping expedition. You guys are awesome -- thanks for inviting us!

Click here to see more pictures from our adventure.

UPDATE: A new obsession...

Becky just sent me proof of this weekend's antisocial behavior to post on here. We were waiting for the fireworks display and the kids were very happily playing at the park. So I had a little time on my hands... :)

A new obsession...

I put off starting to read the Twilight series because I knew I would get lost as I always seem to. That is one of the reasons that I love to read -- to lose myself, to become someone new, in a totally new world. While we were camping this weekend I finally started it. Sure enough, I could not put it down. Can you believe that Carli and the word "antisocial" were actually being used in the same sentence?!? I was so glad that Heather let me borrow the first two books. I finished Twilight last night and I just finished New Moon. Now I have got to get my hands on book three. I need to satisfy my thirst, if you know what I mean. Life could return to normal, ie. caring for my family, once I get caught up. :) I am pathetic. I have absolutely no self control.

Some nights I love doing the dishes...

One of the redeeming things about doing the dishes at my house is the view out of the window over the sink. In the summer the trees block out some of the mountains, but I still get to see glorious sunsets. Last Thursday night was spectacular. The oranges, pinks, and purples are absolutely stunning! Makes me feel so insignificant and so loved at the same time.

Happy Birthaversary!

My friend Alison coined this word for those that have their birthday and their anniversary close together. This is exactly Ken's situation, so it is nice to have a word for the celebrations.

On Friday we all headed down to Holly and Brian's house. For Mother's Day Brian had given Holly and I gift certificates to a spa. We chose this Friday for our massages, manicures, and pedicures. I had never been to a spa before -- it was amazing and I felt so pampered. I especially loved the massage with how my neck has been so sore lately. I also loved spending the day with Holly (Brian had offered to watch all the kiddos). They had also offered to take the kids for the weekend. The best "birthaversary" present ever!

Friday night we celebrated Ken's birthday by going out to eat with Holly and Brian while Kelly watched the kids. It must be so nice to have a built in babysitter. After dinner we went and saw Get Smart. Hilarious!!! We absolutely love spending time with Holly and Brian. They are so fun and great to talk with.

The rest of the weekend we completely enjoyed being together. We went shopping, out to eat, watched movies, and talked, talked, talked. We went and saw Jekyll and Hyde on Saturday night. I have been wanting to see that musical for some time. I was impressed with the performance (for community theater) and liked the show despite the dark plot -- it had some great music. I love live theater!

Another one of the highlights of the weekend for me was watching our wedding video. It has probably been 10 years or so since we have seen it. A few things really struck me. First of all, holy cow, we were young! Ken looked completely shell shocked! Who could blame him? It was really the first time he met most of my large crazy family. :) Which brings me to another thing that impacted me. It is was so wonderful to see how many people loved and supported us by making the trip to San Diego for our wedding. Besides marrying my sweetheart, that was the best thing about that day!



The last 12 years seem to have gone by so quickly. Our wedding doesn't seem that long ago and it is also a lifetime away. Even though we were so young, I totally would marry him again. I think that Ken and I are a great fit for each other and I love him so much. I am so grateful for the last 12 years and all the experiences we have shared together. I feel so blessed and it just keeps getting better...

Sun and sand...

Yesterday we had so much stinkin' fun at Union Reservoir. I can't believe that we have never gone there before! We are going back again next Wednesday for anyone that is interested. There is a great beach, shade trees, and a park. The kids had a blast and I can't wait to go again!

Ode to the Allreds

For months I knew this day was coming. Now that it is here, it is not any easier. Today our dear friends, Shane and Rochelle Allred, are moving. My heart is aching and there is this horrible lump in my throat that does not seem to be going away. I cannot say enough about this amazing family -- they will be so missed!

Shane and Ken were in school at BYU together and we knew he had also gotten a job with IBM and would soon be joining us out in Colorado. Even though I had not met them yet, I looked forward to the Allreds, DeBrys, and Klines (all at school together) all being here. As soon as I met Shane and Rochelle I knew we would be good friends.

This was before either of us had kids and we spent a lot of late nights hanging out, watching movies, and talking. I soon learned that I had to eat carefully around Shane. He is so funny-- on more than one occasion I have choked on my food because Shane says something hilarious right after I take a bite. (Maybe he does it on purpose?!?) I think it was during this time we became each other's "Colorado family." We started spending many weekends and holidays together.

We also started establishing traditions together. When we were in town for a holiday we would spend it together. The Allreds, Debrys, Klines, and Siders have had many a meal together. :) Even if we had family in town visiting, often they would join us in the celebration. After all, they were our family too. We also started going up to Montana to the Debry's family cabin. We started doing this when we each just had one baby, now we are totally outnumbered by kids. I hope we never fall out of favor with the Debrys because this is one of our kids, and our, favorite traditions -- every summer we go up to "the cabin." We all look forward to it every summer and count down the days until we go ( only 2 and a half weeks!). When the Debrys moved to Idaho we were so sad and Rochelle and I threw a goodbye dinner party for them. This too became a tradition. Every year since then we have hosted the Allred/Siders Christmas party. This past year before we had even figured out when we were doing it, we had people asking when it was so they could reserve their babysitter. :)

Then of course, there are the thousands of little things: play dates for the kids, who practically grew up together, fun trips and picnic lunches to the zoo, Canadian Thanksgiving, watching SYTYCD together, book club, and girls' nights. Too many wonderful times together to count. The Allred family is completely entwined with our life here in Colorado. It is very difficult seeing them go.

On Saturday we had a little goodbye party for the Allreds. We had it at the park because we knew there was no way any of our houses could hold all of their friends. It was a beautiful evening spent with friends and hopefully a wonderful last hurrah with the Allreds -- hopefully Becky will post some of them pictures she took soon. :) I think they really loved the scrapbook we made of just a few of their Colorado friends (they have many that call them friend!). I hope everyone had as much fun as I did and thanks to all those that came out to say goodbye.

My dear friend Rochelle is one of the greatest examples in my life. She is one of the best examples of Christlike love and service that I know. She has such grace and patience and handles just about anything thrown at her in such a beautiful way. She is always willing to serve -- I can't tell you how many times she has watched our kiddos for us. She is a true friend who always keeps confidences, thinks and speaks the best of others, and loves unconditionally. Rochelle is one of those people that you can count on and it is a great blessing in my life that she counted on me too. I am so glad that I was one of the people she would call if things got a little overwhelming (which was not very often because she is really good at rolling with the punches). She has a beautiful spirit about her and such a love of the gospel. She always wants to do what is right. I love her so much and I am so grateful for her example and all that she has added to my life and to all those who knew her.

I will miss you my dear friend. This morning it was hard to say goodbye. As the tears were flowing (you know, the the UGLY kind) and Ken was hugging me to try and ease some of the pain, I asked him if he and Shane were upset too. He assured me they were crying on the inside. :) I wish you all the very best. Utah is not really that far away and I am always up for a road trip. I love you very much!

It's the little things...

Yesterday I was struck again by how fortunate I am to be married to Ken! I pretty much always feel that way, but I have to admit that I love it when he does something to remind me. :) Sundays are usually kind of hectic, Ken is busy with church meetings so we don't get to see too much of him and I have my hands plenty full with the kids.

Somehow yesterday I forgot my Sunday school manual and I had to teach my class. After I realized that, Ken helped me look several places to find an extra one, but no luck. So I headed to class to teach something off the top of my head, (I was going to do favorite scriptures and then teach them how to use the footnotes and look up scripture chains) hoping for the best, and wanting A LOT of class participation. We had just finished the opening prayer when Ken showed up at my door with a manual. He had continued to look for one even after I had gone to class. So kind and thoughtful!

I was asked to sing a solo for the closing song in Relief Society. It really tickled me to see him come in and sit down in the back. He had come into that room full of women to support me and hear me sing. Having him there while I sang really meant a ton to me. I am so thankful for the many little things that he does for me and our children that help us and make us feel so loved. It made for one of those days that I could truly say that my love for him grew and I loved him more than the day before.

It was a wonderful day!

Good friends...

One of the greatest blessings in my life is wonderful friends. Throughout the years, in whatever place we may be living at the time, I have been privileged to have amazing people be my friends. Besides my family and the gospel, these people have probably had the biggest influence on me. I have been thinking a lot about friendship lately because one of my dearest friends, you know one of those friends that become your family, is moving next week. But more on that later...

Last night we had my friend Shannon, her husband Mike, and their 6 month old baby, Aaron over for dinner. Shannon and I became best friends in 6th grade when we both lived in Quantico, VA. We lived in the same cul-de-sac. I think 7th grade was really when I started becoming me and she was there every step of the way. When I moved that summer to Okinawa, she was one of the people I would miss most. Lucky for me, we didn't have to miss each other very long. The next summer before our freshman year at Kubasaki, her family moved in directly across the cul-de-sac from us and we picked up right where we left off. I moved again after our sophomore year and we both graduated from high school, went on to college, and both eventually got married. And then I got lucky again.

About 3 and a half years ago she moved with her new husband Mike to Colorado. I hadn't seen her in over 12 years, but our relationship was exactly the same. Sure, we had stuff to catch up on, but WE were the same -- she really knew me and I really knew her and all the years and miles had not changed that.

Last night we had such a blast with them! We don't get to see them very often; we both seem to have real life going on. :) But I was struck again by how, even though we don't see each other as much as we would like, we pick up right where we left off. That, to me, is so cool!

I am so grateful for good friends, like Shannon, that have made my life so sweet.

The moon...

I am a sucker for a beautiful moon. Last night when Joette was leaving she quickly came back and told me to come out and see the moon. It was a beautiful, full moon. It was also a gorgeous color-- slightly pinkish orange. One of those moons where you could see all the details of it. The kind where you know in ages past, before we knew it was rock and dust, people must have wondered what kind of magical place it was.

I quickly grabbed my camera and despite my efforts, I was not successful in catching the beauty of the moment. I did get one that was not too bad though...

"When I admire the wonder of a sunset or the beauty of the moon, my soul expands in worship of the Creator. " -- Gandhi

Ouch!!!!

Pardon me while I whine...

I have not been in so much pain since my c-section with Peyton. When I woke up on Saturday my neck was a little stiff, but I tried to ignore it. Throughout the day I just kept getting worse. I was doing the whole, turn my whole body thing instead of just my neck, and I could not bend without it killing. Advil was not even touching this sucker so luckily, Brandie hooked me up with some vicodin and that took a little of the edge off.

I couldn't figure out how to work Sunday. I knew it probably wouldn't be such a great idea for me to go to church, but I was teaching Sunday school, subbing in Trevor's primary class, and of course wrangling the kids during sacrament meeting while Ken was up on the stand, so off I went with my sweet kiddos. Just a few minutes into the meeting and I knew I had made a horrible mistake by coming, not to mention the grimace on my face was, I am sure, not that attractive. The pain was horrible and I was not coping well. It was such a blessing when my friend Joette saw me, asked what I was doing there, took my Sunday school manual, and told me to go home. When I got home, I quickly fell into a drugged sleep and slept for the next 6 hours.

In other words, it was a lousy Father's Day for Ken. He had to do most of the lifting considering I could barely move. (I promised him that we would celebrate -- complete with blueberry muffins, his favorite -- next Sunday.) Bless his heart for helping get everything ready for Holly and Brian's family that we had for dinner that night.

Monday I was slightly better, but I was still in a lot of pain. I was grateful for the chiropractor that Tasha recommended. He was able to fit me into his schedule and I feel like I am slowly on the mend. I am still pretty sore, but I am actually able to do some things around the house. I am so blessed to have dear friends help me and my family while I am on the mend and my wonderful Ken that has picked up my slack. Boy, it sure makes me glad for a healthy body (most of the time at least).

Bravo...

I am so proud of all my students that performed last night. They all did an outstanding job! It is thrilling for me when the best time they have ever sang their song is at the recital and that happened for several of them. I am so proud of their progress! For those that have been with me awhile, it is great to see the difference from last year and hear the improvement they are making. I love knowing that I have a small part of that. Ken was the accompanist for everyone and, as usual, he rocked. We enjoyed a great evening together; beautiful singing and yummy treats. Maybe next year ALL my students will be up to performing.

An invitation...

For those that would be interested, my private vocal students will be performing in recital on Thursday at 6:00 at the Frederick building of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I am really looking forward to them showing what they have been working so hard on. There will be Art Songs (Italian and English), a spiritual, and lots of Broadway songs (My Fair Lady, Guys and Dolls, Wicked, Hairspray and others). There will also be some yummy refreshments served, so come on down and enjoy and evening of culture. :)

The Star-Spangled Banner

I love singing with Triple Trio! I have such an amazing time with these incredible women. Yesterday we continued the recording session we started about a month ago. We laid down another take of Chili con Carne, Anything Goes, and Operator. We recorded Anything Goes and Operator in layers, first recording the piano, then the "back up" voices, and lastly, the solo over the top. In some ways, doing it that way seemed more difficult, but the sound quality and mixing should be a little better. I can't tell you how exposed I felt recording my solo with no one else singing. I was a little uncomfortable, but it was also fun. I almost felt professional. :) Sadly, I never sound as good as I would like when I listen to the playback.

We also decided that we needed to have an arrangement of The Star-Spangled Banner ready to go. Good thing we have Liz! She just whipped up a four part arrangement for us -- she is incredible! We learned it last week and recorded it yesterday. We also took a video of it because we thought it would be fun to try and sing for a Rockies game or something like that. I'm sure all our husbands would love to go to that performance. :) Here it is.

Best of intentions...

Like many others, I usually have the best of intentions. My problem is that I sometimes have a hard time following through -- whether it is going back on South Beach, getting up early to exercise, or giving up something I know is not good for me. This summer I am working hard to follow through on the routine I have set up for the kids. I made the cutest chart for them to mark off when they have made their bed, picked up their rooms, watered the plants, practiced piano, and done their homework. For the first couple weeks they have enjoyed checking off what they have completed, now it is getting a little harder to keep them motivated. I know that these habits we are trying to form will pay off in the long run. This time I will follow through with my good intentions.

"No! I do it!"

I think the parents of any two year old knows these words well. :) I do believe that these are Peyton's favorite words and she says them often. Just this morning, I tried to help her wash her hands. "No! I do it," she says and proceeds to get water and soap everywhere and the hand towel all wet. Good thing these little ones are so cute because they sure make their fair share of trouble.

Seriously, I think this popsicle grin says it all...

Colorado Republican Convention...

Yesterday I had the opportunity to be a delegate at the state republican convention. It was a neat experience to be part of our political process. I felt official wearing my credentials. :) I loved hearing the speeches from Colorado and national politicians. We had Tom Tancredo, Marilyn Musgrave (I really admire her!) and Wayne Allard give great speeches. We also heard from Bob Schaffer who is running for the US senate. He really seemed like a "salt of the earth" kind of guy. I think he will be a wonderful senator. We voted on party resolutions, delegates for the national convention, and national committee men and women. For me, the highlight was hearing the key note speaker, Governor Mitt Romney. He spoke on behalf of John McCain. (I still don't know if I can vote for him in the fall, but he is far less scary than Obama.) His speech was inspiring and reminded all of us what a great nation we live in. I really hope McCain puts him on the ticket, he would be an incredible asset. It was an eventful day and I am really glad that I was able to be there.

Mitt addressing the convention

Medicine Park and Wildlife Refuge (part 3)

One of the highlights of our Oklahoma visits is always the ride out to Medicine Park and the wildlife refuge. The kids especially love walking around Medicine Park and seeing all the animals out on the refuge -- the sights are even better when you are sitting in the back of Grandpa's truck!

Saturday evening after pictures we drove up and walked around the swimming area. It was a beautiful night and I was loving taking pictures of Medicine Park and the beautiful sunset. On Monday we went to the refuge, hiked around Holy City, and saw some baby buffaloes. On Wednesday Codi, Grandma, and I took the kids swimming at the "famous" Medicine Park swimming hole. We had a blast and it was an absolutely perfect day. The sun was shining, it was in the mid 80's, and there was a delicious breeze. A slush from sonic was the perfect way to wrap up the activity. Where my kiddos are concerned, a little sun and water make the best way to spend the day.

15 seconds... (part 2)

We started off our Memorial Day celebration by attending a ceremony at Ft. Sill National Cemetery. I wanted the opportunity to teach the kids what the day is really about. When we got to the cemetery there were several news stations represented. With our large group, I thought we would be shown on the news that night. It was a neat experience for our family to be asked for an interview. (Cyle even exchanged phone numbers with the reporter.) The kids loved seeing themselves on TV and it was a good exercise for us to try and articulate why this day is so important to us.

Trip to Oklahoma part 1...

Right after school was out last Friday, we piled the family into the van to make the drive to Oklahoma. Unfortunately, we didn't take off as early as we would have liked and we pulled into the driveway of my parent's home just before 5:30 in the morning. Ken got less than an hour of sleep before getting ready to go for the boys golf tournament -- they all had a blast!

We have had a wonderful visit together. I can't express how fantastic it was just being all together! Honestly, I absolutely cherish these times together! One of the purpose for our all meeting in Oklahoma was taking a family picture with everyone in it. The last one was 4 years ago. This was especially important to us with Clint and Cyle both going off to Iraq soon. The evening was beautiful and we got some fun pictures.

"What's in a name..."

So I found this on Ayna's blog and had to try it. What do you think of the results? :)

What Carli Means

You are very open. You communicate well, and you connect with other people easily. You are a naturally creative person. Ideas just flow from your mind. A true chameleon, you are many things at different points in your life. You are very adaptable. You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality. You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something. You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense. You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun. You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow. You are light hearted and accepting. You don't get worked up easily. Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is. You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing. You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long. You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.

What's Your Name's Hidden Meaning?

I voted...

...and under normal circumstances, I don't vote. But I was so inspired. Seriously, David Archuletta can sing. Holy crap! That was absolutely, freakin' fantastic! His voice is a gift. That boy can blow! I was so glad he sang Imagine again. That was my favorite of all his earlier songs. I also really liked his first song tonight.

That being said, I like them both, so it is a win win.

But David Archuletta is incredible! So I actually picked up the phone and voted.

Power of music...

Just quick thought about the gift and power of music. I am so grateful to have music in my life. I love how I am able to express and share myself in that way. Yesterday seemed to come full circle. I, with Triple Trio, was able to perform at three different nursing homes. It was beautiful to see how the songs we sang touched our audience. Even in the sunset of these people's lives, they were moved (many of them to tears) when we sang. I love sharing beautiful words and music with them, especially the songs that they know the words to and you can almost see it taking them to another time and place.

It was such a beautiful contrast to the young children singing yesterday. My group vocal classes had their recital last night. It was an absolute joy to see the looks on their faces as they performed. They loved sharing the talents that they have been developing. You could see that they loved having another way to express themselves. They were so proud of themselves and I was proud of them too. Even though they are still in the sunrise phase of their lives, they still could connect with and have fun with the music they were performing. I sincerely hope that music will always be a part of their lives.

How Can I Keep from Singing is one of my favorite songs. It seems to say all those things that I feel when I sing that I could never articulate very well on my own...

My life flows on in endless song;
Above earth’s lamentation
I hear the sweet though far off hymn
That hails a new creation:
Through all the tumult and the strife
I hear the music ringing;
It finds an echo in my soul—
How can I keep from singing?

What if my joys and comforts die?
I know that Truth is living;
What if the darkness round me close!
Still truth its light is giving:
No storm can shake my inmost calm
While to that rock I'm clinging;
Since love is Lord of Heav’n and earth,
How can I keep from singing?

I lift mine eyes; the cloud grows dim;
I see the blue above it;
And day by day this pathway smoothes
Since first I learned to love it:
The peace from love makes fresh my heart,
A song of hope is springing:
All things are mine since truth I've found—
How can I keep from singing?

(This is from the arrangement we sing and the words are slightly
changed from the original hymn.)

Ode to Kirsten...

I am trying not to take it personally. But two of my dearest friends are both moving soon. Kirsten is leaving next week and Rochelle is leaving at the end of June. I have purposefully not thought too much about it because when I do, I start to cry. My only consolation is that they are both moving to Utah and that is one place that we seem to end up in at least once a year. I am already looking forward to those visits.

On Saturday we (thanks so much to Jamie for organizing it!) had a farewell BBQ for the McNeal family. It was a perfect, Colorado spring afternoon. The kids played at the park while the adults talked and talked. It was heavenly.


I will miss this dear lady so much! I remember when Ken came home from a church visit one night about 4 years ago and told me about this great family he had met with. They had kids that were the same age as our kids. I couldn't wait to meet them. In some ways that seems funny because it seems like Kirsten has always been my friend. Almost as soon as we met, we became close -- that wonderful openness is one of my favorite qualities about Kirsten. Whenever we are together, there is never a loss of what to say. I could seriously talk to her forever! She has so many incredible experiences to share and I learn so much from her.

Our kids have also been friends for most of their lives. Trevor and Conner especially love to play together. On Wednesday afternoon is their standing play date and almost everyday Trevor asks if it is Wednesday because he wants to play with Conner. :) I know Trevor will miss Conner so very much.

Kirsten has cared for my children and taught them on many occasions. She has been such an important influence for good in all of our lives. I totally appreciate the many times she has saved me by watching my kids (especially yesterday when at the very last second, she took Peyton and Trevor so I could go to my performances!).

I know the McNeal family will always be our friends and always in our lives. I admit, watching the "Holy War" is more fun when you have Ute fans to enjoy it with -- seems to raise the stakes a little. :) We will miss them so much when they leave, but they will always have a special place in my heart. The BBQ was a wonderful last hoorah!

Watch DOGS

Last week Ken had the opportunity to volunteer at Morgan's school. There is a great program of getting the father's involved at school called Watch DOGS (Dads of Great Students). Ken got to shadow Morgan at school and patrol the hall occasionally. He loved getting to see what Morgan does at school and meeting her friends. Morgan was thrilled to show off her dad and have him with her at school. They both throughly enjoyed the day!

Two-wheeler rider

Trevor is now able to ride a two-wheeler! On Saturday, we had him try Morgan's old bike before taking off the training wheels on his superman bike. He needed a little help getting balanced, but then he took right off. It was so fun watching the look of excitement on his face. Needless to say, the training wheels are off his bike.

We are so proud of you, Trevor! Good job buddy!

I don't ever want to forget...

It was late Sunday night and we were driving home from Holly and Brian's when, of course, we hit construction traffic. I try not to get too uptight about traffic, I mean, there is nothing I can do about that, so I might as well do the best I can with the time, right?

Well, Peyton and Morgan had fallen asleep so I was enjoying the time with Trevor. We started talking about what he had learned at preschool. I was asking about letters and he was telling the sounds they make. I was surprised to hear that he knew all his letter sounds. (Miss Jen is awesome!) I knew he could spell "pop" so I wondered if he could figure out how to spell rhyming words.

"Trevor, you know how to spell pop, do you think you could figure out how to spell h-h-h-hop?"

He thought about it for a minute and then said, "h-o-p." We went on to try bop, top, and cop (tricky, is it a k or c?). It was great seeing the wheels turn in his brain as he figured out out each word. I was so proud of him and his ability to focus and concentrate.

We were still slowly making our way home, so I asked him how high he could count. He made it to about forty pretty easily (who really needs 16 anyway?). He had copied Morgan a lot, but it was great to see how far he could get on his own. So he got to forty and then the wheels started to turn again. At each set of ten he would pause, figure out where he was on those adorable 4-year-old fingers, and then start on the next set. His eyes were lit up with the excitement of figuring it out and keeping the pattern going. At 99 he got stuck and so I helped him with 100. On his face was sheer joy as he exclaimed, "I didn't know I could count all the way to 100!" I think Ken, Grandma, and I were as excited for him.

I told him how proud I was of him and all he was learning. Somehow the topic turned to things that he sometimes struggles with. We talked about choosing the appropriate reactions when something happens. We talked about different situations and what good reaction he could choose. After a few minutes of this, in his most sincere voice he said, "Mom, I won't ever choose the wrong reaction again!"

I looked at my dear, sweet, tender-hearted boy with my heart exploding with love for him, thinking how all of us struggle with choosing the right actions and reactions. How many times I must have said these same words to my Heavenly Father in prayer, only to fail, again. So I say to him the only thing that I can think of, "Trevor, don't worry if you choose the wrong reaction sometimes, mommy and daddy will always be there to help you."

Over the last few days I have thought of this small moment in time I was able to share with my son. I have reflected on the great love I have for all my children. And then I can't help but think of the great love Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ has for them and for me. I am so grateful for the gift of families and especially the the amazing blessing of being a mother. I guess it was fitting that this happened on Mother's Day.

I don't ever want to forget that moment! It has also made me think of some other things that I never want to forget...

• How Peyton says "(ex)cuse-you-me" and calls Morgan "sissy"
• The delicious, earthy smell of rain
• That God knows who we need in our lives to help us know we are not alone
  
• How easy it is to fall in love with Ken over and over again
• That my soul feels lighter after time spent with good friends
• Trevor when he sings
• The look on Peyton's face as she blows me a kiss
  
• The warmth of Ken as I get in bed beside him
• When someone sees me, really sees me, and loves me anyway
  
• How good it feels to be in the dirt planting things that grow (sometimes, anyway)
• That occasionally I am a good mom
• Listening to Morgan read from the scriptures
• "Ah-ha" moments are priceless

Pumped up!

I just got home and my adrenaline is totally pumping. For our church enrichment meeting tonight we had a self-defense class taught by Heather MonDee. She was incredible and very motivational. We talked about different scenarios and then learned about our personal defense tools. My favorite part was when got to actually practice our new skills on Heather's assistants. We did a simple palm, elbow, knee combination. But as I did those moves, screaming no at them, I felt really empowered. I am so grateful for the opportunity to learn these things. Now that was one awesome church activity!

Performance Videos

On Monday, Triple Trio had the opportunity to perform had a couple of nursing homes. I love singing and performing with this amazing group of women! It is so fun to prepare this music and then share what we have worked on. Here are two of our numbers. If you want to see more, click here and it will take you to the Triple Trio blog for the rest of our songs.

Anything Goes



Operator

It was a "Mother's Weekend"...

This last weekend we had such a blast, my mom came to visit! She got in on Thursday and we headed immediately to our favorite place -- Costco! We got home just in time for me to teach a voice lesson and then we got ready to go to the theater. We planned on taking my mom out for her birthday. We enjoyed a leisurely dinner at Hacienda Colorado and then drove down to the Denver Performing Arts Complex to see A Chorus Line.

The show is a classic and we were glad that we went and saw it. You really have to be a triple threat to be in that show! For it being such a "standard" show, I was surprised that I was not more familiar with the music. I enjoyed the show and you could see how it would have been very edgy and "important" for the 1970's.

Friday we had scrapbook day here. We had a wonderful time and we had some people that don't usually come. It was truly a treat to have them there. It great enjoying the conversation and everyone working on projects. I got a couple of digital layouts done for my first digital album I am trying to complete.

Saturday we just had a "get it done day", doing errands and tidying up the house. We hit the quilt shop down off of 144th. It was incredible and the assortment of fabrics was delicious. It confirmed to me that I need to stick to scrapbooking and cards, because I could easily see how how fabric could become a new obsession.

Saturday night my mom babysat the kiddos so Ken and I could go out on a date. We went out to dinner and then went and saw Ironman. That movie rocked! I love the idea that you can be a super hero just because you are wicked smart. That is certainly a good one to see in the theater.

Sunday after church I got to take a nap. Seriously, I think that is my very favorite thing ever -- a Sunday afternoon nap! Then we went down to Holly and Brian's house for a delicious Mother's Day dinner. I love watching the cousins play together. It was the perfect way to spend the day, with my mom and and lovely dinner.

It was fantastic having my mom visit for the weekend. My kiddos love their grandma so much! she always does fun things with them. This time was making monkey bread and monkey milk in their brand new monkey aprons that she had made for them. We always have a wonderful time when my mom is around. She totally knows how to light up a room. I am so grateful that she is my mom. I love her so much!!!

I always hate the part when she has to leave. Luckily, we will be heading to Oklahoma soon for a family reunion and we will all be together soon.

Today is Kristin Chenoweth day on my blog...

I love her performance of Glitter and be Gay from the opera Candide. This song makes me wish I were a coloratura. Sigh....



And I totally need to work this one up...

The girl in 14 G

And how cute is this?!?

Taylor the Latte Boy